Thank you, Hilary.

Want to hear something interesting?  I am sitting at my desk listening to Pandora Internet Radio playing LDS church Hymns and similar songs.  As I was sitting here, a song called “Who You Are” by Hilary Weeks came on.  As I listened, it was like Ms. Weeks was singing directly to me.  I have been having one of those kind of weeks and I confess I have wondered if I was doing it right or if I was ever going to have a peaceful home.  I mentioned earlier in this blog that I have difficulties with the concept of deserving to be tired.  This song spoke to that feeling like a beacon of light in the middle of a stormy sea and I found myself clinging to each word.  I’d like to share this song with you all, in case you’re feeling the same way and thank you, Hilary, if you’re reading this, for this song.  It was exactly what I needed today.

From YouTube via ldsjaneite

Lyrics below:

I know you wonder if you’ll ever have a day when the kids stay calm, the laundry’s done, and the dishes are put away. And sometimes you feel like your days are spent and gone and the question running through your mind is what have I gotten done? and when you finally have a moment to slow down at the end of you day I know Father would say
Believe in what you’re doing
Believe in who you are
Hold tight to the truth that you’re a daughter of God
Believe in who you’re becoming
Believe in who you are
It may seem simple – all the little things you do But the lives you touch matter so much. And there’s no one else like you. And Father needs you to stand tall and faithful to be all you can be.Oh, if you could see what he sees. When it’s hard to believe in yourself and you feel like you’re beginning to doubt, Remember
He believes in what you’re doing
He believes in who you are
Don’t lose sight of the truth that you’re a daughter of God
That he believes in who you’re becoming
He believes in who you are.

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Plans for Today

I’m debating with myself today about whether or not I’ll go to water aerobics class with my husband as usual.  On the one hand, it’s an excellent opportunity to get in some laps in the Court Club’s Olympic-sized pool before class starts, not to mention getting some one-on-one time with my husband.  On the other, I still have lots of laundry to catch up on, not to mention other things that need doing such as organizing an area of the house, pulling weeds in the front garden and so on.  One way or the other, it should be an interesting day.  In the meantime, I have my son with me and he is being a five-year-old boy at the moment, snapping my bra and sticking his hand down the back of my shorts (Hey!  Stop that!  Your hands don’t go there!).  I can hardly wait until it’s time to put him on the bus for school.  More later, hopefully.

UPDATE:

I decided to stay home and catch up on my chores.  I have put away all the clean clothing.  I have the dishes done and the floor picked up.  I’ve checked the garbages and I’ve started another load of laundry.  I have about an hour and a half until Boy gets out of school to do as much laundry as I can, as that’s all that’s really left.  I fully expected doing the dishes to take longer.  Anyway, I plan to empty out Boy’s hamper and at least start the whites to washing before I start tackling any more of the left-over laundry that’s still piled up from when I was sick.  I’ll get caught up.   It may take me a while (as I still need to pester Princess about her laundry (Yes, Mom.  I know you’re laughing.)), but I’ll get it all caught up with eventually.  In the mean time, I can work on my writing.  Check some of my other blogs listed in the sidebar for some of my latest work.

That’s all from Dragon’s Lair for today.  More tomorrow, hopefully.

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I Deserve to Be Tired!

I have been quite busy today, as has my other half.  The result is that my hands and wrists ache and that I’m…very…tired.  Here’s a list of everything I accomplished today.

  • Brought in the paper
  • Did my morning routine (yes, for a depressed person, it’s important to note that I brushed my teeth and washed my face.)
  • Made 2 beds
  • Opened three sets of curtains (the family room ones usually stay closed.)
  • Emptied three garbage cans.
  • Washed whites
  • Folded  and put away two baskets of laundry
  • Washed a further two loads
  • Pulled weeds near the driveway for about an hour and piled them in one spot
  • Watered the garden.
  • Brought Princess her backpack when she forgot it this morning.
  • Watched Boy and made sure he got on and off the bus safely.
  • Freed up some disk space on my computer
  • Ran a back-up of the hard drive
  • Went shopping for supplies for tonight’s dinner.
  • Shredded some cheese
  • Washed the breakfast dishes and loaded them into the dishwasher

I’m still not done.  I’m closer to being caught up with the laundry and I now have 4 lilac bushes on the side of the house that need planting.  Then there’s the dinner dishes to do and the kids’ bedtime routines before they will sleep and, with some amount of luck and a nice hot shower, some play time with my husband, perhaps.  I didn’t get any writing done today but, judging from my list, wouldn’t you say I “deserve” to be tired?

My husband and I are both guilty of this.  We’ll be sick or busy or something and then complain “I don’t deserve to be this tired.”  This time I wanted to be absolutely sure that I didn’t say that.  I ache…so…much.  I probably need a nap but, if I go to sleep now, I won’t wake up until tomorrow morning.

Anyway, I imagine that the majority of the remaining chores beyond what’s necessary (the kid’s bedtime routine, the dishes, my bedtime routine) will probably wait until tomorrow.

Later.

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Playing Catch-up

Okay, I’ll admit it!  I’ve been busy with something called “Real Life.”  Perhaps you’ve heard of it.  Sometimes, I lose track of it, too.  It happens.  Anyway, I got back on the stick and, once again, only have the laundry to catch up with.  Everything else is, more or less, done.

I think I’m finally sick of logic puzzles.  In fact, I may be tired of puzzles generally speaking.  So, now I have an empty drawer on my desk.  It had three books of logic puzzles in it (ugh).  So, at jaklumen’s suggestion, I put all three into the recycle bin.  I may repent this decision on another day but I highly doubt it.

In other news, Princess’ tenth birthday is coming up very soon.  I still need to figure out what to give her.  She has more than enough stuffies.  She has two dolls.  Her other relations keep her well stocked with clothing and shoes.  Hmm.  Tough call.  I might consider a book for her or maybe a Lego set.  I don’t know.  What do you give a ten-year-old geek girl for her birthday other than her very own light saber?  Ah, well.  I’ll keep thinking about it.

Sorry, this is so short, folks.  It’s late and my head feels like it’s filled with that fiberfill they use to stuff teddy bears with.  Maybe I’ll have more to write tomorrow.  So, for now, good night.

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Ohh! Now I Understand!

About two nights ago, I began having difficulty sleeping due to a nasty sharp pain in my back and side.  All the next day, I was in pain.  Last night, I had more of the same.  This time, at least, I had a single side that I could lay on.  However, this was frustrating because the side I was able to lay on wasn’t my usual side.  So, any time I decided to change sides I had a fresh stab of pain.  This morning, I found that bending was a challenge.  Standing for long periods was okay, but tiring, and sitting made things just a little worse.  When walking, the pain made my breathing feel labored.   Mostly, the pain was just a dull ache.  I also discovered some worrying swellings on either side of my back this morning.  Princess thinks I may have bumped something and bruised myself, but I don’t remember that.  Anyway, about half an hour ago, I took some ibuprofen gel caps and the pain has subsided somewhat

Honestly, though I’m only 43 years old, I’ve never felt more old and decrepit than I have today.  Also, I spent a lot of time thinking that this must be how my husband, who’s been in serious pain for a little over two years, has been feeling lately, which is why I chose the above title.

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Princess and the Truck

Yesterday, Princess was hit in a residential street by a pick-up truck while she was riding her bike to school.  Now, before anyone can make any shocked comments, she’s okay.  No broken bones.  There’s a large scrape on the ball of her left foot that’s making walking difficult, but, beyond that, she came out more or less intact.  The bike probably suffered more damage than she did.  Both police and her teacher said she was smart to wear her helmet, which also survived.  The driver was terribly shaken, as I can imagine anyone would be after striking a child with their car.  The police told me he was in tears shortly after the ambulance and I left to get her foot x-rayed.  He offered to replace Princess’ wrecked bicycle, even though I told him it was a second-hand bike.  I felt so bad for him that I gave him a hug the minute I saw his face.  I’ll probably call him today and let him know that she’s all right and find out what he wants to do about the bike.  When we were done at the hospital, since none of us had eaten anything for breakfast, we all went out to lunch.  Also, we asked her if she wanted to come right home or go to school when we were finished at the hospital, since the doctor there said she could go to school if she wanted to.  She said, unequivocally, that she wanted to go to school.

When Princess finally got to school, yesterday, her teacher asked her to talk about her experiences regarding the accident while the rest of the class ate lunch and answer any questions the kids might ask her.  So Princess has had the chance to talk it all out and she feels better.  On the other hand, she also wants me to buy her some crutches so that walking won’t hurt as much.  I, on the other hand, am still having trouble.  I realize that, had the driver not stopped or Princess not been wearing her helmet, I could have lost my baby girl or else she could be seriously hurt.  I don’t know who to talk to and, if I did, what I would say to them. 

In any case, Mamas, don’t let your babies ride bikes without helmets.

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Rant: My Thoughts on DC’s Changes to Wonder Woman

Lynda Carter as Wonder Woman, displaying her a...

Lynda Carter as Wonder Woman, displaying her ability to deflect bullets using her bracelets. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Before I begin, I know that many of my previous rants have been rather disorganized, so, this time, I’ve taken time to organize my thoughts.  In effect, this is more an expression of my opinion than a rant.  Unfortunately, it’s also pretty long, but I have strong feelings on this particular issue, and I tend to be a tad verbose where issues such as this are concerned.  Ask anyone.  In any case, you’re suitably warned, and if you make it all the way through this article and still feel like making a comment at the end, you deserve a medal.  Let’s get on with it, shall we?

As many of you know, DC Comics ™, faced with dwindling sales, decided that they needed to do a complete reboot of 52 of their titles.  Unfortunately, when companies decide to do this, inevitably, they tend to lose much of their existing fan-base (as White Wolf did when they rebooted the stories behind their main games, which was something I predicted would happen.)  Everyone knows that DC Comics™ and Marvel Comics™ have had something of a more or less friendly rivalry going ever since Stan Lee had his first real success with the everyman superhero, Spider-man.  However, they never changed their heroes’ basic backstories.  Superman was an “overgrown boy scout,” but the fans loved it when he and Lois Lane finally got married.  Many of us, myself included, felt that it was meant to be.  True, we cried when we learned that Superman was going to die but it was a riot when he was brought back to life, better than ever.  When it was learned that DC had made the decision to more or less divorce Clark and Lois and give the always tough newspaper reporter to some fool that nobody really knows, many of the fans, including myself, howled with outrage.  Marvel received a similar reaction when some fool on their staff decided that Peter Parker and Mary Jane Watson, another couple the fans long thought would inevitably be married, should be separated.  Why writers do such things is beyond me.

Recently, however, I learned that DC, in its rush to boost sales, has decided to completely revamp Wonder Woman’s background.  When will these fools learn that they should leave her alone?

Wonder Woman was originally created by William Moulton Marston, the psychologist, inventor of the systolic blood pressure test (now used as a component of the modern polygraph test),  and noted feminist theorist during World War II when the comic book companies were coming up with the first superheroes (Superman, Batman, Captain America, etc).   There were a number of factors that inspired Marston to create DCs Amazon powerhouse.  First, he saw that the majority of the superheroes being created were male and he felt that there was a place in the genre for a strong female.  Second, his wife, Elizabeth, who was born liberated, heard that Marston was inventing a superhero and declared that said hero needed to be a woman.  Third, Marston saw the educational potential of comics.  He felt that what the world needed was a superhero that would triumph through the use of love rather than with violence.

The Wonder Woman I remember was played by the beautiful and talented Lynda Carter.  Like most girls of that day, I pestered my parents endlessly until they bought me the Wonder Woman Underoos, in which I would spin until I was dizzy, pretending I was Wonder Woman myself.  I thought it was pretty cool that Diana wasn’t violent unless she had to be and, although her costume was revealing, really what superhero’s wasn’t, she was strong, talented, decisive and, above all, beautiful (and by that I don’t mean her looks).  She was everything I wanted to be when I grew up.

Of course, much of that has now been left at the wayside, now that the New 52 has been announced and is beginning to be sold, once again intent on worshipping the almighty dollar through selling sex and violence rather than catering to the fans or building the rising generation.  Everyone knows sex and violence sells and you’ll often hear writers scream to fans that they’re not doing anything more than writing realism.  I don’t know about you, but I don’t think that the majority of people in general or women specifically are that violent or that promiscuous.  In fact, I think most people are decent, moral, conscientious and, above all, kind.  You tend to see more acts of kindness in the real world than you do acts of violence and promiscuity.  I don’t count the exploits of celebrities in the supermarket rags.  That’s just more evidence of publishers trying to use sex and violence as a tool to sell magazines and, thus, enrich themselves.  If only morality sold, but, unfortunately, morality isn’t sensational and that’s what publishers are really aiming at: Sensationalism.  It’s a pity really and, now, fans of Wonder Woman are suffering for it.

Why couldn’t Diana’s background be left alone?  As a storyteller, I understand that the original myth involving the Amazons was a violent one.  Amazons were reputed to be very manlike, murderous in some cases, the idea being that they went against the nature with which women were created.  The stories said that they lived on an island in the Mediterranean, that they frequently captured male sailors, had sex with them until they became pregnant and then slew their lovers and, if the children they bore were male, their sons as well.  Stories said that the island had a small graveyard where the island’s males were buried.  They also said that every woman in the group was a warrior and, as rite of passage, each woman would cut off her right breast, the better to facilitate the drawing of a bow in battle.

Marston’s original background for Wonder Woman held that the Amazons, though tough and fierce, were fundamentally feminine and didn’t really go against their natures, mainly because they were cut off from the rest of the world and few in number.  They lived on an island called “Paradise” and Diana was created from a lump of clay given life by the Greek Gods.  She didn’t have to be hidden from Hera because her creation was legitimate and necessary.  She was a warrior that was fundamentally female.

Nowadays, so many women feel the drive to either keep up with or outdo men in the working world.  My husband and I have often remarked how hard it is for today’s man to get a job in our feminized world.  Why, then must Wonder Woman follow suit?  Why should she need to be darker?  Why should she ever find it necessary to kill when her original creation was as an object and proponent of love?  Don’t they say that it’s love that makes the world go around?  Don’t they say that love is the most powerful emotion?  Why should it be viewed as a weakness?  I know that many of us, both male and female have suffered greatly for putting our trust into the hands of unworthy people.  Does that really make it a drawback?  Isn’t it for lack of love that so many marriages dissolve today?

Please, DC, don’t do this to us!  Don’t make Wonder Woman into a female Batman!  There’s only one Batman and only one Wonder Woman and, speaking only for myself, I liked her the way she was.

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